How we differ from other PUA programs

Many PUA websites promise that theirs is the 'magic bullet' or that they have the only 'true' method that will guarantee results. Things such as -

 'All you have to is A...B...C... and after 5 hours you can walk into any club and meet any woman'

OR

'Instant success, remember these simple lines and you'll get laid , etc - guaranteed, 100% real, only £XXXX blah, blah, blah' 

The truth is that they don't work for everyone and they can't and won't; it is an unregulated industry where any guarantees aren't really worth anything because there is no set standard for them to comply to (and in fairness how can there be!). Basically they are free to make any claims they wish, this really puts the onus on to you and how comfortable you feel when deciding who you want to work with and how you spend your time and money.

Having said this they (as in bootcamps) do work for some people (to varying degrees), and I'm not criticising anyone or any PUA products or Bootcamps in particular, in fact I've heard very positive things about many of them from and many people (and please don't ask because I won't tell, I've been told in confidence). All I'm just saying they don't work for everyone and they often don't work very well for approach anxiety in particular.

Another problem many people have told me is that after they have finished a bootcamp is that they while they leave on a 'high' that then when they are back home away from the instructors and other students that they revert back into their old and unhelpful habits. They then can become disillusioned and start blaming themselves. The truth is that although the bootcamps are excellent on many levels that they often don't tackle the real and underlining issues as to why you're having the problems in the first place. This is where I can help.

It's all very well knowing about every possible technique, routine, opener, all the lines etc and the theory but if you're unable to put it into practice then it's like giving a fish a glass of water! (or something like that!) In fact all you're likely to achieve is an overload of information, cause confusion to yourself and develop a feeling of disappointment that you are currently unable to use the information.

As a NLP master practitioner, hypnotherapist, PUA and Life Coach I can help you deal with your sticking points, to overcome approach anxiety, with confidence, gaining congruence, dealing with shyness and to feel comfortable and relaxed around women. I can also help you achieve this in the shortest time as possible. Please see my hypnosis website Excel Hypnotherapy for further information about hypnosis, NLP and life coaching.